Monday, September 12, 2011

Memories, Farewell to Ed, R.I.P.


Farewell to Ed, may the Angels hold you tight and keep you smiling now.

 My heart is sad for my two sons. Their dad passed away yesterday at 3pm, 9-11-2011 


Their Dad's favorite tv series of all time was the original Star Trek .

I will be taking a break from blogging for a few days, this is a dedication to my two wonderful sons in the memory of their father during this sad time for them.

Ed, lost his battle to cancer.   
 9-11-2011 ... R.I.P.  Ed.
Ed sitting in the Captains Chair a dream come true



R.I.P. Edwin Iffert
2-27-1953  9-11-2011
Live Long and Prosper in the next life
Recently taken at Kennedy Spacecenter around two weeks before his passing,  he had an absolutely fabulous day, got to sit in the Captains seat.
 Curt got to bring him here with VIP passes he got to see everything behind the scenes.

Enjoyed the last year living with his sons and his future daughterinlaw, as they took care of him during his illiness, he loved sitting on the back porch having coffee and watching Star Trek
Before he really knew he was very sick, one of the  boys favorite pictures, and Ed's too.

He gave me two amazing boys that I am very proud of. They took care of their father along with Curts fiancee Jenni and comforted him everyday. The last year has been stressful, tearful, painful to watch. The positive side for them, they both spent quality time together that made memories that will last a lifetime. There are no easy ways to say goodbye at the end of life.
You both now have someone to watch over you from above.
I love you both always, you are the best sons any mom or dad could ask for, my heart is full of sadness for you both, . 

50 comments:

Jody Rys Armstrong, Redington Shores, FL said...

I have been reliving my formative years by making the Utica recipes on your blog. Thank you for giving a part of life back to me. My deepest condolences to you and your family as you grieve the tremendous loss of your partner, friend, and parent. God Bless and comfort you.

Annamaria Settanni McDonald @ It's In There said...

So sorry for the Loss. I know how it's like. I lost my father almost 2 years ago to cancer. It's very hard. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. God Bless, Annamaria

Andrea@WellnessNotes said...

Your family is my thoughts and prayers.

StephenC said...

I send my best regards in the hope that you will remain strong and, with your boys, cope with your grief from day to day.

My Little Space said...

I'm so sorry about your beloved Ed. Am sending my condolence to you & your family. Take care.
Regards, Kristy

Karen said...

Ed, was truly an amazing person he made everyone feel they were special had a kind word for everyone. He was always willing to help you if you needed him all you had to do was call. You will be missed but never forgotten. R.I.P you were loved by many.

Melissa @IWasBornToCook said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Anonymous said...

Sorry Claudia for your and their loss. I know to well the hurt and saddness of losing a loved one but it seems the celebration of their life eases the hurt. RIP
:Tony Violante

Curt said...

Claudia, my sincere condolences to you and your two sons.

Dottie said...

So Sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family. <3

Lenia said...

Words are not enough to describe the pain when you lose somebody special!May this wonderful man rest in peace...

Free Spirit Eater said...

I am so sorry for your loss Claudia. May Ed rest in peace. I pray for you and your children, may you all find peace during such a difficult time. I'm so sorry, you have my deepest condolences. Sending hugs and good thoughts your way <3

Teri said...

My condolences to you and your wonderful sons. I don't think a parent could ask for better than children who are willing to be there with them in their final hours (not to mention in the days, weeks and months before that).

*hugs to all of you*

StephenC said...

Anything we out here in the blogosphere is bound to seem shallow. But I do wish you solace and comfort with your boys.

Jersey Girl Cooks said...

So sorry Claudia! Keeping you and your sons in my prayers.

Jenny Eatwell said...

I'm so sorry to hear your news. My condolences go out to you and the whole family.

Emily Malloy said...

Praying for you, Claudia, during this difficult time.

Drick said...

My heart goes out for your boys as well and for you too Claudia... condolences to the entire family

Sandra said...

I am so sorry Claudia, my condolence to you and your family.take all the time that you need sweetie!!!

Angela FRS said...

So sorry Claudia. Virtual love to your family.

Katrina said...

Sorry to hear and may your sons feel comfort at this time.

Gera@SweetsFoodsBlog said...

So sorry Claudia...My prayers to you and your sons...

Hugs to You!

Ana said...

Sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

fred piperata said...

Until we meet again my friend for over fifty years!!...I'll miss our phone chats, and the times we laughed together...Just last week or so we taked and laughed a little , and I was amazed that you could still enjoy a chuckle or to as sick as you were..Ill alway keep you in my heart my friend , and never forget you...To Chad, Curt, Jen, and Claudia Ed loved you all so much and told me so many times God Bless you all for taking care of him...Ed and me used to make fun of each other's skin color...him real white and me a little darker..well last night I was looking up at the full moon and thought his big white face was looking down at me smiling lol...he would of laughed at that...Good by Ed I'll miss you...R.I.P Freddy

Shia said...

So sorry to hear. I hope you all are doing well.

Dzoli said...

I wish you strength in these days.You will in time have nice memories...

M.J. said...

So sorry to hear about your loss..Take comfort knowing that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Reeni said...

I'm so sorry Claudia! Sending you giant HUGS!

Lizzy said...

I am sorry, my friend. I'll keep you and your sons in my prayers. xoxo

Vicki Bensinger said...

Claudia I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and your handsome boys.

Ann said...

I'm so sorry....take all the time you need. We'll be here when you get back. In the meantime, you and yours will be in my prayers.

D & T of huggingthecoast said...

Hope all the good memories you've had together will help sustain your family during this difficult time as you move closer to peace and healing.

Spicie Foodie said...

Oh Claudia my heart is breaking for your sons, you and all of Ed's loved ones. From the bottom of my heart I am so sorry.

You paid a beautiful tribute to him. Though I'm sure the past year was very difficult on many levels for your sons, it was good that they got to spend that time together.

As you said, may Ed live long and prosper in the next life. If there is anything you need please don't hesitate to ask.

FOODESSA said...

Take all the time you need Claudia. I can only imagine how heart-wrenching this whole period has been for you and especially for your sons.

All the very best going forward with beautiful memories.

Ciao,
Claudia

Gastronome Tart said...

I am so sorry to hear about this Claudia. I will be thinking about you and your family during this time.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. Josh's Dad has liver cancer now, but it has supposedly went in remission, hopefully. Take as much time as you need off, we're here when you get back.

Angie@eclecticrecipes

Katherines Corner said...

there are no words,,, only thoughts and prayers. I send them both. Hugs

Lucia from Madison said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I will say prayers for you and your family during this difficult time. Remember all of the good times and laughter.

Cajun Chef Ryan said...

So sorry to hear of your loss, yet so nice of you to share the lasting memories of him and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time of need.

Edna said...

Sorry for your loss. Keeping you all in my thought and prayers.

Catherine said...

Dear Claudia, That was a very beautiful and loving tribute to your boys and their dad. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Your friend, Cathrine xo

Trix said...

Aww, Claudia I am so sorry. This must be so hard for you and your family. I am glad your sons have such a wonderful mom to help them through this. xoxoxo

Winelady Cooks said...

Claudia,
My condolences to you and your family. You are blessed to have such loving children who gave their love and support when needed most. Loving thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Joanne

Magic of Spice said...

What a beautiful tribute Claudia. I am so sorry for your families loss and my thoughts are with you and your sons.

Pegasuslegend said...

To ALL my wonderful Foodie friends and family, thank you so much for all your kind words and support to my children and I for the time you took to write and express your sympathy. You are all very much appreciated during this emotional time. Our sincereist thanks all.
Claudia, Curt and Chad

Elisabeth said...

Dear Claudia,
My heart is filled with sadness over the loss of your beloved sons' father! Such a beautiful tribute post, for Ed!
My deepest condolences to you your sons, and family!
Take all the time you need to support your sons at this time of sorrow. Just know that you have friends who love, and care about you!

Curt said...

I hope all is getting back to normal for you and your two sons.

It's never easy!

Roz from 'la bella vita' said...

Dear Claudia,
For some odd reason, I felt like reading a few blogs since taking a break a week ago. I just read your post about the loss of your dear husband and wish that I were there to hold you and comfort you as you have done through our blog friendship to me. May your husband be in peace and I hope that you find comfort and healing in the Lord and your family, friends, and loved ones. I will be here for you anytime that you need a friend to talk to or just cry with. Love, Roz

penny aka jeroxie said...

Big hugs to you lovely. I have recently lost my dad and I understand how it feels. Let's all hang in there. :)

la vita รจ bella (life is beautiful) said...

Ciao! I'm so sorry for your loss!! May God be with you at a time like this. Condolences to your family! Such a beautiful tribute you made for your husband. Keep the memories of him in all of your hearts. I'm here for you! Hugs! ♥